My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

I guess it's a damper on her idea that she has influence on me still. She thinks its mean that i'll never tell her if i have a girlfriend or not. She thinks its mean that i dont care what she thinks when she says only women can shave there bodies.

I'm a muscular guy, i dnt want to hide my hard earned body behind hair. She's only 33 and she's stil living in an age wen wering pink (i dnt wer pink, but she always has sumthing to say wen she sees a man wering pink) was a girl thing. She thinks that 106.7 (kroq) is the radio station that plays crazy people/satanist music. i tell her she needs to get up to speed and that the things i do, i do because i choose to and not because its a fad or trend. She feelz hurt that wut she sats duznt effect me. am I wrong or is she wrong in her train of thought ? I'm 16 by the way.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

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My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

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My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

lol...Try to spend less time at the gym and more time in spelling class

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

She has Fellings too!

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Show her this post.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Dude, as long as you live under your mom's roof, you should care about what she thinks and have some respect for her! And even if you don't care what she thinks, keep your smart mouth shut.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

its fine but maybe respect her. i mean, theres a difference from rebeling and growing up, listen to your mom to some extent but follow your heart on your decisions. its your life to make your own mistakes and praises.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

no one is wrong here.. in a way, i had mother problems where just.. she would ask so many questions it got on my nerves. Its your life, and you can do what you want with it. Your mother may be slow in some of today's world and criteria, but give her some credit, at least shes looking out for you.. good luck!

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

I guess what u need to do is that just take sometime out and talk to ur mum about this gently and let her know that what u do makes u happy and also it's the new generation thing that every tennagers follow and do...

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

I think that this is a Mommy's right lol

But maybe you need to find some time with her and talk to her on your own explaining that what she is doing is getting to you

what you need to do is come to a compromise where both of you are happy

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

i know how u feel. my mom lives in this world where she think all guys are bad and that i can't even handle them. just becuase she had bad experences with guys doesn't mean i will. all i can say is live ur own life its the best thing u can do. its what i have learned to do. if she couldn't accept me having a bf i just hid it.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

My oldest just turned 17...your mom just wants to be a part of your life. My daughter told me that I don't "give her space"...EX: She gets up at 3 AM. I ask her what she is doing (it wakes me), She will say, "DUH?? Going to the bathroom???" I told her I was concerned..thought she was sick, etc...she doesn't care. Doesn't want me to ask. We just want our kids to know we care. We gave birth to you. We held you when you had a fever. Kissed your bumps and bruises. We can't "turn off " the caring when you turn a certain age. It doesn't work like that. Give us a small amount of respect..even if you fake it until you have kids and understand.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Its ok for a young guy like you to be opinionated in so many things specially the way you live your life. BUT.... NEVER forget that she is STILL your mother. without her you wont even have hair to shave and muscles to buff. RESPECT her in every way. She only wants the best for you dude. Mothers will always be mothers. Love her in every way you can. She knows alot of things than you so better listen and follow her coz she has been trough sh!t to have a deft son.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Your mother has what can basically be referred to as a spoiled brat.

You are still wet behind the ears and need to listen to your parent. She is responsible for you until you are 18. You are dependent upon her for your room, board and socialization.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

It's so hard for us at the age. When I was your age I thought exactly like you. Isn't that your mom doesn't understand you, is just something that you both need to learn how to go through this stage of your life!! She needs to learn how to understand what you like and that you can start taking your own decisions without asking her. and it's the same with you. So good luck!!

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

tell her you know where she's coming from but things are different for people your age today...the things you do are completely normal for guys who are 16. the whole shaving your body/wearing pink/listening to different music is so normal...tell her that that's what people do now. when she was younger, people listened to diff. music, etc. but i can see the whole girlfriend thing from her perspective and yours...i mean, i couldnt tell my parents either, it would be weird, but most people have (i'm 20)...just tell her you'll come around when you feel comfortable. good luck :)

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Even though she's your Mom, she wants to have a conversation with her Son without being a Mom. Wants to see how her young Son is handling the "world" without her holding your hand. Give her the parent security that you are doing OK and talk WITH her. She is a person to.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

moms always wants thier son to accept her and be thier best friend.u ll feel tht once u r into ur fatherhood and u ll expect tht frm ur daughter..wt i suggest is shaving private parts is really good to accept wt mom says.it ll never affect ur masculinity but will attract girls as u r free from bad odour...taking it in right sense will help u.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

When you grow up and have a daughter, you will also be hurt if she doesn't care what you think. Careful, karma can be a real ***** when you grow up.

Be glad that your mother cares enough about you to be interested in what you do. Try explaining the way kids are now, and ask her to tell you some stories of what it was like when she was a kid. It looks like what is needed here is communication instead of competition. And by the way, you need to pay a little more attention to English class. You write and spell like a 9-year-old.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

ok i am 16 but a girl so we have different ways of thinking things. Umm I think about the girlfriend thing why wouldn't you tell your mom about having a gf. If my boyfriend didn't tell his family I would think he really didn't care. Just tell her that you like to show off your body to worked for so once in a while you would like to shave to. Also with the pink thing Men in pink shirts are kinda good lookin once in a while. But it has to be a certain shirt so just tell her that you don't really like the color pink its just not your style. Also just explain that the music you listen to is what you like to hear you are open to listening to different things but your favorite is 106.7 Just tell her your opinion but don't shove it in her face. Just nicely explain how you feel mom's don't like to be left out but remember somethings are personally to so just tell her how you feel.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Ahh, sixteen.

My son is fourteen, and believe it or not I can recall being a teenager.

I guess as an adolescent you are striving for autonomy/independence. I don't quite understand why teens have to take out their aggression or frustration on their parents. I mean, from the start parents have love and fulfill their child's needs. I guess they are the only ones to push against in order to see their own beliefs.

Perhaps you can chill on your attitude about your mom not being hip. Quite the judgement. If you don't want to be judged how is it okay that you can judge her behaviors and attitudes.

She loves you, maybe you can share yourself here and there. What you are comfortable with.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

its just hard for her that's all my mom was the same her little man has grown up and now doesn't need her anymore shes used to her little man shes nurtured you and spent the best part of 16yrs caring for you so now that you are growing up its new to her and in time she will relies this but its for her to realizes as its hard to let go its hard to tell your self my little man is all grown up now and still growing

just remember this and tell her stuff tell her things as this will speed up the process her hearing about certain things you get up2 her finding out more and more how much you are changing growing up this will help her come to terms with stepping back a little bit

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Your mom is only looking for you to say "I love you mom and I still need you - even though I'm growing up."

You don't need to like your Mom's music, clothes, trends, or anything else. That wouldn't be healthy. She has actually done her job of mothering - she has raised an independent 16 year old with his own opinions, likes and dislikes. So, things are really not that bad!

What you have to do now, is show her that you still care, respect her and need her. No matter what, you could still share a hamburger out once a week, or go to a movie, or do something together without getting into "my way is better than your way" conversation. When you learn to appreciate what each other's actions are really saying, you can learn what to verbalize back!

Good luck!

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

It's true that she's been around longer than you have, and probably has some good advice to offer. (And yes, manly men don't wear pink :-)

However, she's still a woman, and they love to play mind games and control others using GUILT ("You don't love me anymore? Why are you so mean? O.K. I'll just crawl into bed and DIE since you don't care about me anymore.....blah. blah, blah...) Get used to DRAMA from women, be it Mom, GF or Wife.

I'm not telling you to disrespect your mom or not to listen to her, just that it will be a constant struggle to assert any individuality when it goes against her point of view. Try to deal with it without being disrepectful or stupid, like doing drugs (a common act of rebellion) or getting tatooed just to pyss her off.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

I hate to tell you this, but you are still a 'minor' (a child!) and your mother has every RIGHT to expect you to 'listen to her' and even to 'mind' her if she tells you what to do. Your mom was only a year older than you are now, when she had you ... do you think that was EASY for her? Are you ready to be a good FATHER if you get a girl pregnant now? I don't recognize the call letters of your radio station, and I think that you should be able to listen to the music you LIKE ... but for now, you also need to listen to your mom when she tells you that it's 'not right' to shave your body hair, or any other thing. I may be 'right' for you someday, but NOT until you are a 'legal adult' when you turn 18. Think about it ... that is really very LITTLE TIME, and you have a mom who loves you, and who really isn't as 'crazy' as you think she is. So 'back off' from your 'not telling her things' and be more receptive when she talks to you ... and if you get so angry that you have to 'hit' something, go outside and beat your head against a brick wall ... your mom will be there to 'bandage you, and comfort' you, because that is what moms DO ... just as boys your age think they 'know it all' ... boy, wait until you hit 60 ... you'll KNOW by that age that you are 'barely started' and wonder how you got to be such an 'old, old man.' I can tell you, though ... it's because your MOM gave BIRTH to you ... so give her a kiss, say you're sorry, and try to be a little more 'understanding' ... because YOU are the MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN HER LIFE!

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

You are 16 years old and living in your Mum's house? General house rules world wide begin with repect for those you are living with. Parents know that their children are going to grow up and leave home to 'live' with other people. So letting your mother know about where you are and with whom and what time you will be home is reasonable and common courtesy.

If you want your Mum to understand where you are in today's world you must respect where she has come from in hers. You need to speak to her in a mature way not just this 'spoilt brat I don't give a.......' We parents respond more to 'can I have a talk to you about ......', you put forward your point of view and then you LISTEN to your Mum's not REACT to it. If she has not moved towards a compromise then you have to continue talking to in a clam way again recognising her point of view. Eventually she will hear what you are saying to her instead of yelling at her or worse 'dismissing' her.

Adult rational conversation has to be initiated so that communication channels remain open between you both.

No mother likes their kids shaving their body as that is proof positive they now are in charge of their physical appearance. Natural passage of rite in todays world, we parents get over it. With regards to shaving the body you would be better off getting it waxed. Hurts like crazy, by early 20's you should have little or no body hair.

Ah, radio stations and music choices? One day you will be doing the same it is just part of life that we stay with our own era's music because it was ours and of our own time. Share the 'lighter' music of your era with your Mum there are plenty of great songs around you can share with her.

Music rebellion was started by the 'First generation of Rock'n'Rollers' so nothing new here.

Sorry you do do things that are 'fad or trend', that is what being in your age group is about. Trying out new looks, music, dance moves etc., hanging out with your own peer group.

Meeting the parents is something all girls expect in a relationship, they like to see where 'their' boyfriend lives what his parent/s are like so they can tell their girlfriends. Her parents will want to know if you have a stable homelife so they can trust their daughter with you.

Just a thought, Mum pays the bills? Mum deserves respect from you not criticism. She was only one year older than you now when she had you. Her development was altered in a way that you cannot understand. Her world was between that of her age and that of her parents generation and it would seem she has doted on you.

We never know what will happen in our day that we wake up to, we only know yesterday is gone and tomorrow never comes.

My mom seems hurt at the fact that I don't care what she thinks ?

Mom is just being a Mom. Sometimes very hard to take, but she does mean well. When she gives her opinion just treat her like you would anyone else..say ok, or I see your point, but I like this or that. She may not like your music, but if you give her reason beyond it's kool- she may at least respect your like of it.

The body hair is you either like or don't like it. I see your point, and it is valid, but I think she'll always have a problem with that. Also the girlfriend and the pink thing- She may be worried about your sexuality. If she never sees you with girls, you shave your body, work out in a gym a lot and (pink for older people will never work) pink is the new thing with men - she may be thinkin you're gay.

you can't change her, but you can change the way she gets to you. Try when you can, not to treat her as annoying and ignore her when you know she's only going to nag.